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Sep. 13th, 2011 09:09 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
seryn1) There is, actually, a lot of stuff going on in my life that's locked. I said to some people who I'd just met here that most of my stuff was unlocked and that's why I wasn't granting them access... because it doesn't matter. Only now it sort of does. Because without the context, you might not understand why I'm a lot more quiet and why I keep posting about ephemera when I used to be interesting. It's because all the interesting stuff is locked.
2) The locked stuff is bad.
3) I've been just doing "access list" because while I was posting from hospital waiting rooms, I could post by phone and I'd set that up with minimal security.
4) However, now, I want people to opt in.
So Comments are screened. If I didn't grant you access but you think you want to be more involved in my life during a very low point and have the emotional resources not to be trying to make me feel worse, let me know. If you want to never see these posts, let me know and I'll drop you to just a subscription. And finally.. Opt in for the Simon Health filter. If you don't say, I'm not going to include you. And I won't take it badly if you don't want to be included in my gloom and doom posts. I did, actually take it badly all the people who said nothing to me through the dozens of posts I made detailing really a parade of horrible situations. And I do appreciate the friends who have shouldered a huge portion of my burden by being here for me and with me. But I don't want to lean on people who are already unsteady either.
ps. (added the next day) If you can see this post, http://seryn.dreamwidth.org/289101.html , you were added.
2) The locked stuff is bad.
3) I've been just doing "access list" because while I was posting from hospital waiting rooms, I could post by phone and I'd set that up with minimal security.
4) However, now, I want people to opt in.
So Comments are screened. If I didn't grant you access but you think you want to be more involved in my life during a very low point and have the emotional resources not to be trying to make me feel worse, let me know. If you want to never see these posts, let me know and I'll drop you to just a subscription. And finally.. Opt in for the Simon Health filter. If you don't say, I'm not going to include you. And I won't take it badly if you don't want to be included in my gloom and doom posts. I did, actually take it badly all the people who said nothing to me through the dozens of posts I made detailing really a parade of horrible situations. And I do appreciate the friends who have shouldered a huge portion of my burden by being here for me and with me. But I don't want to lean on people who are already unsteady either.
ps. (added the next day) If you can see this post, http://seryn.dreamwidth.org/289101.html , you were added.
